BE FREE!

Feb 8 2013

Image

YOUR OWN BRAND OF BEAUTY

EMBRACE AND CREATE YOUR OWN BRAND OF BEAUTY. DON’T LET OTHERS STEER YOU WRONG AND THINK FOR YOU.

Dec 21 2012

Love 4 Sale

Do This for me, I’ll do That for you *_^

This is truly nothing new. For centuries before you or I arrived here on earth, men and women have sold “Love” for power, position, titles and material wealth and gain.

Then there is the age old question, “Is it wise to marry for love or for money?” and “You can grow to love the man/woman attached to the money” and “Love can’t pay the bills!” and “You can do bad by yourself!” I know that we’ve all heard it or something else similar. It’s the old, “scratch my back and I’ll scratch yours”. You know the old “beneficial friends” *wink*.

I know and believe it is a man’s duty to protect and provide for the women in his life. And that the only women in his life, should be the one’s he is willing to do these things for instinctively. When a man loves the women in his life he naturally wants to do the above mentioned. That is of course, if the women in his life have built him up and not destroyed that natural characteristic and instinct. One does not have to bait or trick him into it. Sorry Ladies =(

This leads me to my next question: Is material gain better or is the content of the relationship better? How many of us want to be used? I mean really, do you want people to just use you or, to want nothing more from you then what they can get? How do you expect someone to truly care for you when they know you are using them? Now I know there are some people in this world who are into this type of thing, they look for needy people. I am not talking about them. I’m talking about those who deceitfully capitalize off of the weaknesses of others.

Let me put it this way, If one dates, loves, sexes… solely for what can be gained materially…what differentiates between that and prostitution? You tell me what’s the difference, but only after you’ve given it some real thought. Let it marinate for a minute, think of the similarities put the pictures side by side in your head. As adults our goals should never be to find someone to take care of us. You don’t even want to take care of yourself. What makes you think anyone else wants to? No way my dear and there will be none of that. I mean there are just better and less dangerous ways to make a living for one’s self. Also, you need to know that you are worth more than what your sexuality can purchase.

There is no feeling like being self reliant and self sustaining. Why? Because, you never know what could happen. The person that is being relied upon could up and leave at any moment or any day. Think of the countless individuals who go in for the money and were left dry and as thirsty as an African desert in summer. This would leave the abuser hard up for the next….ummhmmm. Now said person will be an even bigger wreck in the next relationship. Boy I feel sorry for their mates. Why? The person never took the time to learn to love and nurture self.

It is vitally important for each and every person to take the time to cultivate self. Merriam’s defines cultivation as follows; to improve by labor, care, or study. Let me add that again, to improve by labor, care, or study. Whoa! Now imagine if we improved ourselves by labor, care and study. How bad would we truly be? It is a crime and a shame to neglect those steps. If it is missed one will find themselves trying to be like other people who have taken the time to do so. We actually take time to get to know other people. Well, what about taking time to get to know our own selves. I’m saying take away media and propaganda influence on who we think we are. Then who and how would we be? I am not condemning anyone, I want for us all to be the absolute best that we can be. If that means being honest, open and candid about things others may sugar coat, so be it. But just remember that the mission and purpose will always be to inspire us to do and live better, happier, more peace-filled lives, to open the mind to critical thought and visionary imagery. To help us think outside of the box and confidently for ourselves.

I say this with love, never judgment or condemnation. I want to see a better you, a better us, a better world, one post at a time.

Peace, Love and Light to you all until and beyond next time *_^

•●♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥●•

Dec 18 2012

Pants on the Ground?!?!

I have never, will never could not ever, ever, ever understand this madness. How does this make sense? How does one with good sense in their head walk around and feel like this is ok?

Knowing the history of the sag.. why?! No matter what anyone say’s you can’t take that away. It will always and forever mean what it originally meant. What was that, for those who may not know? This meant that you are into relations with those of their own sex.

I have seen grown men walking around like this. I have seen some with

dirty spots, you know they have to be stank. Why would you want to show that off? Putting all your business in the street (clean or durdy) and then demand for someone to respect you?! You obviously don’t respect yourself!

Men this has got to stop. You are Kings and future Kings, Protectors, Defende

rs, Providers. Have you forgotten? Did no one ever tell you? Well you can’t say that because I just did, and if you are a lady reading this, pass it on. Remind our men of who they are, that goes for all the men you love in your life.

Men have been tricked into thinking this is cool, that this is fashionable, that this is ok. It simply yet seriously, is not ok. Men please stand up with your pants up. Please teach the young men coming up behind you the same. To have respect for yourself and for those who paved the way for you to enjoy a

nd have to freedom’s we do today.

I say this with love not hate or condemnation. I want to see a better you, a better us, a better world.

One Post at a Time.

Peace, Love and Light Ya’ll

•●♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥●•